hey i recently got married to a great man he took in my 3 kids so in respect i figured i could be a mom to his 3 kids, so all 6 kids and me and my hubby live together( all 6 kids are boys) there is a 17 ,15,13,11,11,and 7 all in a 4 bedroom house. ITS CRAZY i dont know what i did to my self but its crazy!! his previous wife past away and for some reason his kids blaim me I did nopt get with him till she was already gone, I hat e that she had to die so young but it was not my fault and they blaim me.. I really want to love these kids but they wont let me and they are so mean to my youngest it kills me to see him cry.the 15 13 and 7 year old are mine the others are his. when my husband is around they seem to be very respectful but let him leave without me and all hell breaks loose. but not only do i have my mom, my ex mother inlaw and my new mom inlaw to deal with i have his late wifes mom to deal with too and her sister. her sister wants me to be her best friendand be like a sister to her but then she is mean to me too. me and my hubby have a great relationship and he gets along well with my 3 and they respect him. They are glad he is here to step in where their dad left off. he tells me he feels closer to my 3 then his 3, i really dont know my real grip here just that i am frustrated and confused on how to be a mom to kids i did not give birth to. the 17 year old is just about out of the house he graduated early and joined the navy he leaves in October cant wait cause him and my 15 year old fight like cats and dogs. they are like night and day. he tried to hit me one day and my son jumped on him and i had to get after my son.. just plum crazy. but anyway if you have any advice on how to get thru to these kids i am open for advice too..
