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I am a big supporter and a very good implementer of NC. I think NC is the easy part. I think I know less about what to do now. After 2 months of LC all contacts initiated by him and and 2 months of very strict NC, my ex told me he wants to try again and see where it goes. I know I have to take it slow but at the same time I feel like we are disconnected and I dont know how to reconnect without pursuing him. I want to make him work for it. But, as a pursuer, I have fears, as usual. I am scared that he will think that the thing between us is not whta he remembres. Do you have any suggestions?