nectarine712

thanks guys!.................

thank you for all the advice the people in my life dont understand what im going through and its nice to be able to express my feelings. Thank you.......... do you think its okay to talk to her bestfriend about how i feel? or should i keep it to myself?

we made the deal to still be friends and continue to hang out (season tickets for baseball game, movies, etc... Im just hoping that she'll fall back in love if she see's that im the man for her...but at the same time she might only see me as a friend I am too scared to start dating right now because I cant see myself with anybody but her. I have been hanging with my friends and family - going to clubs, bars, malls etc......but they cant be around me 24/7 and its driving me crazy. I only eat once a day, cant fall asleep unless I drink and I wake up at 5am every morning........... All i can do is think about her and my mistakes. I feel that I have grown up so much in this time apart I know that i am a better man....... I have so much love to give to her right now. It is so hard because I feel like I spent 4 years with a angel and now she wants to fly away......

i know that 3 months ago I was her sun moon and stars. She would tell her friends that I was the one and wanted to spend her future with me. Is it possible for someone to fall out of love that quick?

When I was younger I would always wondered- "how do people know that they are ready to get married?". Now I know because I have this feeling that I dont want to be with anybody else but my GF. I cant imagine a life without her........... Im going to follow my heart and be her friend because I believe that I can make her happy. Im going to be the best friend she has ever hadand show her another side of me that she has never seen. By doing this she might one day fall back in love with me again.....I know if this doesnt work out I might be setting myself back a couple of months but I'll risk a few months of misery for a lifetime of happieness.

I'm 26 and my gf just turned 21. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 4 years and she is the love of my life. She is everything that I have wanted and plus more. Recently, the last 6 months I have been distracted because of work, family, friends and other problems...and I have not been putting my all into the relationship. My girlfriend was stressed out from her own problems but I wasnt there mentally to support her because of this she has fell out of love. Like a fool I did not see the warning signs but nor did she discuss her feelings with me. I'm not the brightest guy when it comes to females and I need to be told up front. I feel like that I never got a chance to fix the problems and when I did it was too late. Before the break up I have been kicking around the idea of proposing to her and was saving up money to buy the engagement ring. We use to tell each other that we were waiting for each other to propose but like a fool I waited to late. After we broke up we had a long conversation with her and during the talk I felt the best feeling in the world and I popped the magical question. She declined because she thought that I wasnt in the right state of emotion...but I was sincere. She tells me that I wasnt making her happy and she doesnt see me in her future. She wants to find herself and make herself happy...she still wants me in her life but as her bestfriend. Im so confused because I have found the love of my life and she doesnt watn to be with me. I have tried my hardest to get her back but she wants to be single right now. I understand that she is young and has so much to explore. What should I do? move on? I love her like crazy and all I can think about is her. Be her friend? but its so hard because I dont want her so see me as a friend....I dont want to lose the best thing in my life.