My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and we always talk about gaetting married and having children. Lately though I've developed a problem and I'm not exactly sure what it is. I've started to notice things more and I really let them bother me. My boyfriend is a big flirt, but I know that he would never act upon it. He doesn't think that he has a flirting problem, but others around him even think he flirts a lot. He calls it "being a friendly person". I try to talk to him about that, but like I said he doesn't think that he has a flirting problem. So this leads to girls starting to like him and calling him, and wanting to go to movies w/him, spend time with him, and date him, and this is all because he is such a flirt that they don't know that he has a girlfriend. I know he loves me because he tells me so all the time, and I know that he would never cheat on me because he has been cheated on, but I have no clue why I let this bother me if I know he loves me with all his heart. Anyone have any clue??? Then another thing is that lately I've noticed him looking at other women. He tells me that I'm beatiful all the time and that he thinks I'm perfect, but if this holds true, then he does he need to look? So, this makes me feel I'm not pretty enough for him. So, I've started working out a lot more than what I used to and I've started taking diet pills, and that upsets him because I don't need to be taking the diet pills. I tried to tell him that I feel I need to change my body for him because he feels the need to look at other women. So, this makes me unhappy with my body of course, and he has been telling me lately that I can't love him until I love myself. The thing is though that I haven't had a problem with my body until recently. I've always been very active in sports and in good shape so I know there is nothing wrong with my body, but I get it in my head that there has to be something wrong. Then this fall he is moving in with some girls into an apartment. At first it was him and 3 guys but 1 of the guys got out of the lease, and another guy that he is going to be living with found these 2 girls and had them sign the lease before anyone knew about it. I've tried to talk to him about it, but then he thinks I don't trust him. But I do. These two girls flirt with him all the time, they are always around him and if they aren't, they are calling him. He thinks that they are just trying to be nice about it. I don't know what my deal is, and I know that if I want to keep my boyfriend in my life forever, I need to figure out what is going on. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!
