Hi, Im having real problems getting over my girlfriend, as I write this Im still living with her, but she told me she doesnt love me 3 days ago and that 1 of us should move out. I have decided to go, making it easier on her. But I dont want to, I cant let go and I feel devestated inside. We have been together for 4 years, living together for around 3 and a half of those years, so we are extremely close.
About a year before now, we went through a bad patch, she slept with someone else while I was away for a weekend, she almost moved out when I got back, but we worked things out (or so I thought) She told me she hasnt been happy since this event last year and feels she should have moved away then, but never told me this. Should I have seen signs? *confused* She says she stayed with me until now to see if she could love me again, but has now decided she doesnt. This has come totally as a surprise to me, as we were going to begin the process of setting up home (buying house) together, but now I know that fro the past year she has had no intention of ever doing this, we've even been on holiday together this year.
We also had a pregnancy scare in the summer of this year, she actaully got pregnant...... But she did not want to have a baby at this time, so it was terminated. This devestated me to, but I was strong for her, it wasnt an easy thing for her to do and I respected her decision. Life went on.. was different, but I thought we were getting along ok. She told me she has been thinking about this for the past year.... I just dont know what to do. I really love her so much and would do anything to make her happy again.
