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Been having causal sex with a man for about two years. (about once a month). I was coming out of a long relationship, and he was a friend. We both agreed and it is what worked for both of us. During the two years we have become very good friends as well. He calls me just about everyday, and we talk about everything. About a year ago, he started seeing someone...but we continued to have sex. (not looking for the you mean person you) anyway, about a two months ago after I saw him one day....i realized that i had real feelings for him. I thought about it, and decided to tell him that I had feelings, so the sex needed to stop. I did so, he agreed and said that he to was very attached to me and because he was not "ready" to leave his girlfriend he would respect my wishes. (i did not ask him to leave her) So since that time he continues to call me everyday, I do not call him. the topic is sometimes heart felt on his side, other times just normal chit chat. He calls me everytime he is on the way to his girlfriends house, and yes even called me while they were away on vacation together.
At this point I am not sleeping with him. nor do I plan to unless we are in a relationship. So...long intro for ...one looking for some honest insight on this situation, then looking for what to do now. Do I wait for him? Do I stop talking to him? Am i crazy to think he really is interested in maybe having more with me? And why does he keep such constant commuincation? and yes i am scared to ask him, for fear of running him off.
