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well from a guy, i would say do u try to take her out to do do exercises and what else ex: walks, jogging. Checked up on her diet, dunno, but you know like keep an eye out for certain things. I agree with you communication is important, i mean if theres something in the relationship you both need to discuss then she should talk about it, in a way this could show if she cares, but then again might be some other reason. did you try to discuss this with her, i think that through communication can do a lot and like your open about it then she should feel okay about it. As you said if theres been mainly UPS in the relationship then maybe try talking to her about it, i mean maybe shes not confortable in talking certain things but then again i dunno... later, H

i dont think i flirt, but i try to notice the person, make eye contact, try to talk about things....