S'up everybody,
My name is Chris and I have been trying to get back with my ex for the last two months but its not happening. I have sent her flowers, made her CD's, wrote her poems, e-mail cards etc..
We were together for two and a half years. The break up came about because I was going through alot of problems with the family and other things like final exams. One day I told her not to bring up anything that would make us fight and she did. I was already about to explode and then I did. I broke up with her. She asked for a second chance, but I was in such a bad mood I couldn't give it to her then.
The month after I had been busy with finals and work and had no time to think or to myself. the following months however were the complete opposite and reality hit me hard. Really hard. I realised what i had done and what I had lost and the pain is growing by the day.
To make the situation even worse, one of her old friends is coming on to her strong and they see each other everyday as they work in the same office. He is a player and she knows this. She hates paople that arent loyal but she is dating him at the moment, I think.
I used to call her everyday but have narrowed it down to twice a week. I still message her sometimes though.
Any advice to get her back will be much appreciated. There must be someone out there that can give me a hand. I love this girl with all my heart and I was her longest relationship and her first. Before that she had only had a boyfriend for 6 months.
Please help.
Chris
(Thailand)
