Hi.
Im 18 years old, and my ex girlfriend is 3 months away from becoming 17. She was everything to me, but last week I became nothing to her. See my story is, we had been in a healthy, strong, loving relationship for 6 months. She's the reason I graduated from high school, motivating me to get my grades up and go to school, and do it. She was there for me always and I was there for her always. Now, most people would think that both of us are too young and we should both be having fun, exploring other things, and meeting new people, but she is everything I want and everything I can't have now. We had our anniversary 2 days before she broke up with me. We exchanged gifts, because we felt it was a good part of the relationship to celebrate. Then the next day we had gone out on a date and to the movies, and then went to hang out at her place like we always do on a Sunday. The next day, I call her before she goes to school at 6 AM, and tell her I love her, and she told me the same back. 12 hours later, I get a phone call that informs me I no longer will be with the love of my life. Now, it would be much easier to accept the breakup, if I knew what went wrong. She told me that she was too young, that she didnt want a boyfriend anymore and that she didnt want to be serious anymore. That she didnt have time for her family and friends. But, she showed no signs of even wanting to be without me, she told me nothing before this day that there were problems where she needed space. She just ended it. If she had told me we needed to take some space away from each other, I would've gladly given her some, but its like she didnt want me anymore. Her family treats her like shes nothing, her father doesnt care, and her mother has her own life. She only really hangs out with 1 of her friends, because thats the only friend always there for her. And throughout our whole relationship, she had told me how she would hate to live a life without me, that it was hard even imagining it.
I want her back so badly, because we were so perfect together, nothing was wrong, and I was always there for her, more than anyone else. I'm not too young to know what I want, and I know when I looked into her eyes, I didnt believe she was either. If anyone has actually read this whole thing and cares one bit, I'd like to know if they have gone through something like this, and if so, do they know what the problem could be? Most people will probably laugh because we are this young and not supposed to be serious, but I would be lying to myself if I said I didn't want to be anymore. Any help would be wonderful, because I feel totally sick and terrible inside.
Sorry for the length, but to understand my problem, you must understand the story.
Brandon
