pumpkinmoon

Its cool... it will get better I was doing the same thing...

It seems to get better for a day or 2 then it gets worse again and then better, but everytime it gets worse, its worse than the time before if that makes any sense. I just don't feel like I can deal with it all anymore but there is no way out of it. Through the day I think of everyone on here and how they are feeling the same way and it's just sad Are you feeling ok today?

Its the evening of day 17 and its just terrible. I almost texted a few times and broke down and part of me just wants to see him to do some more begging and pleading This is so crap, but all of you already know that.

Supposed to be day 27 but remember she called me on thursday so I guess I have to start over.

Ah yeah, not like you broke it though so itis ok

Hey chin up. I'm starting to feel better and you will too...

Thanks. Glad you are starting to feel better. It's usually worse in the mornings. I'm sure I will start to feel better as the day goes on What day are you on now?

After another almost sleepless night I woke up to day 17. It's a bright sunny day, I'm exhausted and it feels like day one all over again

exactly and that is precisely what you want! good on you. You may not even feel like answering her for a week or so

hmmmmmmmmmm, I think you should maybe leave it and text tomorrow or ina few days saying I hope you had a good time?

End of day 2 and feeling very low.

It will be hard at first becasue you don't actually realise what you are doing with NC but you will get used to it. I don't even check my phone much anymore and the urges to contact him are becoming less frequent. Stick with it x

plus we are counting the days... LITERALY!!! They are not, they're probably running around relieved in some way that they can do whatever, whenever they like, but that won't last forever, not long at all I don't think. It may take them a while but they will probably stop and think to themselves at some point, "has it really been that long since they contacted me?"

I like this. I am telling myself that she is wondering why I haven't written or called her and is asking herself if she should. She is the one with doubts.

I hope so. Also, it's harder for us because the break up shocked us and its not what we wanted at all, so 2 weeks or a month of NC will probably seem a hell of a lot longer to us than it does to them, but I bet/hope the more time goes on without a peep from us, the more they will start to wonder...

Day 7 NC.

 

i need to make this to the 30 day mark.

You will make it Im on day 16 and its kinda flown by in a way x

theredrocket,

I want mine to contact me too, the longer it goes on the more I seem to want it. Just because she isn't contacting you doesn't mean she isn't thinking about you, it just means she isn't dialing your number Someone on here told me that and it makes sense

day 18 afternoon

when I come home from work and walk in empty rooms it hurts like hell.

It is just not normal to so much miss her, but I am ruined. Almost one month since we are not together and now it is even worse then in the beginning, I want to call her to hear from her, but as she doesn't want me in her life I will try to keep it at least 30 days before making utter fool of myself and contact. so I guess that is 13 more days, not that bad. april 21 st is the day.

I really would like to be with her, I just feel more and more as time passes there is a love inthere.

This sounds exactly like my situation. It's day 16 now and I keep agonising over how to contact him when the 30 days is up felt ok today, went back to work and that helped take my mind off things at first but then towards the end I just wanted to get home.

day 15, NC is definitley helping, I'm not sure if I'm even starting to get over him, maybe

Day 13 too and its poo! being drunk doesn't help either I thought it was supposed to make you feel good? always has in the past

justagrl,

I remember reading your post now. Is there anyway you can cancel the holiday and get most of your money back? Cant believe he still hasnt attempted to send you the money!!!!!!!!!

Thanks for the offer,Her Cancer has spread and she has little time left.

 

And to think the year started great

Then my cat gets chronic kidney failure,My girl dumps me and now this.

 

I feel like frickin Job

I am very sorry to hear it. It must be so hard. Please get all the support you can from here and everywhere else. Try to focus too on what's most important to you right now, which is your mother. You say she has little time left, try to spend that time with her in a positive way xx

Just a girl

What letter did you send?

hfc65

Sorry to hear about that, if you want to talk about that too it is fine by me.

Day 12 and it seemed easy til now. Missing him even more, I wonder if it works the other way too?