crinklecat

thanks for your help, I really appreciate it. That's kind of what I have been doing seeing as I was too sick to go out and do anything. The last guy I dated, I was pursuing too much and it didn't work out. I think I pursue emotionally unavailable men. I guess it's disappointing that you want something to work out. It's been a tough time since I got divorced. I'm paranoid about chasing a potential partner away because I am eager. Lets just say that I don't play that dating game they say to play so well. To be honest I don't really know how I feel about him. It was nice to have a guy to talk to, i dunno I am just so confused. I just dont want to do the wrong thing.

I guess I feel kind of uncomfortable calling him. My last conversation with him was ok, I just told him that I was sick and that i couldnt go, he mentioned that he had gotten sick also. We chatted for a brief while and then he told me that he had to go and he would talk to me later. I still havent heard from him yet. I think that is the reason why I was worried about calling him too much. I don't want to over-pursue... you know?

I'm not sure what to do. I'm new back on the dating scene after being divorced for about 3 years. Been cleaning up the emotional baggage. It's been such a long time since I have been on the dating scene, I am quite rusty on how to play that dating game. I was matched by a matchmaking agency with a guy. I called hm and we went out on a few dates, and had a good time. We would talk on the phone (Al though I would admit that I was dong more of the calling) but all of a sudden the calls just stopped. We had made plans to go out and do something else, but I was sick and had to cancel. I haven't heard from him since. I am not sure what is going on. Was I too eager to have this arrangement to turn into something more? I admit that I really didnt know this person, yet everyone that I ask says to just forget about him. If he was truly interested, he would have called by now. It's been a week or so. I don't want to be the one that comes accross as being too needy.. What would you do in this situation? Is it wrong for me to go into each potential dating as a possibility for romance or even marriage? I mean, I havent really dated much to begin with and even though I didnt really date this person for a while I am still disappointed. any advice?