i've been with my boyfriend for about 15 months. in the past week, i've noticed that we both have become distant. just a couple of days ago, he had asked me if wasn't happy with him. i said i was happy with him but since then, we both have sort of kept a distance. we see each other almost everyday. though, we don't live together, i practically sleep at his place every night. our sex life has gone from 3 times a week to once a week and lately i haven't really been in the mood...as if i were just losing more interest as each day passes. whenever we talk on the phone, we don't say much and when we are together...we don't really talk. often i'd try and initiate a conversation but most of the time it seems like he doesn't even want to talk to me. though, we don't talk much...he wants me to stick around and stay with him. are we both maybe falling out of love? i know that he isn't cheating on me. however, i feel like maybe my bf could be going through depression. i know he doesn't like where he lives (with his dad and his girlfriend and some other extended family) and work. he was unemployed for over 4 months and just started working again. he doesn't like where he works right now but he's doing it for the paycheck. i could think of so many things on what might be happening with him and yet when i ask him...all he says is that he's been tired and that there is nothing wrong with us (the relationship). sometimes, i find myself confused, sad and frustrated because of the strain and wanting us to be happy but i can't. i have talked about my feelings with him and all i get is him looking at me with a blank faced and showing no emotion...and when i cry...he gets worse. he doesn't say anything and isn't comforting. i don't know what it is that's bothering him and what i should do. i, on the other hand, am left here thinking is he really okay? are we okay? because we sure don't look like a happy couple right now. i know that couples have their ups and downs...and this could be one of them. it isn't like my bf and i have had other problems before...but i feel like something's missing. i'm hoping that this is a passing phase...or maybe him trying to sort out his problems and wanting some space. all i know is that him not talking about it is causing a strain. i wholeheartedly care for my bf and i do anything and everything to try and make him happy. although, at times...i'm wondering how long i can take being his emotional punching bag because i know there is a major difference between being supportive of your partner vs. being your partner's scapegoat.