Well, Hi There! I'm not married, but I do have a partner who is 35 years my senior. You've got nothing to worry about. Lol. I would love to get married to him one day. We already cope a lot of flack (which is definitely expected) but more often than not, we can shrug it off. Him being the older one, takes it a little more to heart because he feels guilty and unsure. I try my best to reassure him on such occasions but I think it's from other people he needs to hear the positives.
Jaymee-Lee