That's an interesting name for someone who considers themselves to be shy and sheltered. Anyhow whooooa that was information overload, where can I start? Hmm well I'm 38 years old male and I've been to university and travelled following my graduation came back and enrolled myself into yet another school for advertising design (WHY COS I THOUGHT I'D BE SUCCESSFUL AT IT). Obviously I wasn't well atleast I didnt get to where I wanted to be. I was always sort of like you but I was shy of females never wanting to get rejected I wouldn't take the risk..Girls never chased me down although in my highshool and early years I used to get alot of attention. But Time progressed I put on weight and boom a cycle of depression hit (By the way depression is a big waste of time).
What got me out of all that negative crap. I found a sport I wanted to pursue. I got involved with cycling at the age of 28 in a short time I lost so much weight I was fitting into trendy clothes feeling real slick I just landed a great job and my life was on its way up...? Well in the industry of Graphics and advertising design it can be quite toxic...I lost my job why because I was still lacking self confidence and people saw that. As mytime progressed I got into serious road cycling now I went to buy my first Pinarello racer and my gosh I was in the saddle of that bike for about 3 hours a day during the week and 5 hours on the weekends..Finally I met up with my life long dream of riding with a group of real racers there were approximately 75-80 of t hem that hot summer day..needless to say I've been riding with them for 5-6 years now and The change in myself and personality is night and day.
What I'm saying is get into a sport sweetie something that your serious about and about being good at. Sports or working out running power walking Yoga whatever it is...DO IT! It will change your life forever you would not believe when you're Fit the way you carry yourself you exude that personal power that many people will gravitate to you because they just want to feed off your positive energy.... Anothe Key Be positive about everything don't let anything anger you squash those feelings immediately and move on.
think of this FIDO forget it Drive on. Thats what we say in the cycling world..if someone cuts you off or harasses you while you on the road
If you'd like to see our group ride go to
youtube and punch in: Donut Ride. Click on the first result that says
History of the Donut ride
There are people that come on that ride and say its therapy for their lives.
I got into teaching and moved on up into opening my own company met the girl of my dreams in every way. She's beautiful girl inner and outer.
We got married 3 years ago and our relationship has been the best one Ive ever experienced. No my compnay still is not doing the greatest so we've transformed it into another media and this I'll believe will take off in the meantime I have something else to shoot for and thats key...Have a fallback plan it really helps out. well gotta go sunshine...remember it all starts with you! In ordre for things to change first I must CHANGE!.
HOpe this helps...
Taurus18
Sincerely
Taurus18
