s0confused

my goodness everything you've said is true. And yes it's so true that the more you push to contact that ex when all they want is space, the more the other person gets annoyed. i asked my ex for 2 months of NC and he texts me 3 days later and then called me 6 days after the first texts. each time he's contacted me we argue and i get to see what kind of person he is. yet i still hold on that he can change.....i feel like a stupid girl for thinking he can change for the better. why do i do this?!?!