Hi there. Do i back off now or do i try to get her back even though she told me she didn't want to be tied down and wanted to be alone not with anyone right now. she said that on monday. she keeps emailing when shes at work saying u there what you doing. So she is obviously thinking about me. she freaked when i stopped emailing or calling. she though i didn't want to be friends or have anything to do with her so i told her i wanted to be with her and that i luved her and i hoped that i could see her soon. i also said i hope you don't give up on us and that i was just busy and gave her the space she wanted. did i do the right thing there???i haven't emailed or called i was going to on saturday (tomorrow) is that a good idea?? I would say she will call me tonight maybe thinking i might be out and doesn't want me with anyone. I know she luvs me more than anything in this world and she told me she did and always will a few days ago. she told several others the same. I think she wants to be with me just needs to earn the trust back that i lost. the only thing is her aunt and family are against me do you think that will stop her from coming back? she went against them before when she moved in with me so do you think she would again? well i'm just wondering if i should be emailing or calling or should i only do it every couple days? I'm just scared i might lose her to someone else if she starts losing the feelings she has for me. I know that she is the one i know what i want from her its just how to get her back without losing her so that i can prove it to her that it will be differenet and for the best.