I think most shy people are born with a genetic disposition to be shy, but environmental factors affect how shy they actually become. I was raised by both parents. My Dad is very outgoing, my mom is shy, in some ways less than me, in other ways more so. I think my Dad's behavior contributed somewhat, as I often felt he'd say something inappropriate to strangers and it embarrassed me, making me afraid I'd embarrass itself. He also was very strict in some respects, and especially would punish me when he perceived I was being disrespectful to him. Sometimes I was, but others I honestly think I was not. He'd be so pissed if he know I thought this, but I think he raised me how he thought his parents should have raised him, as he was an only spoiled child, and I think he feels he didn't capitalize on his potential enough, even though he earned a Ph.D.Unfortunately, I think the effect of it is that I'm only beginning to maximize my potential now. I don't blame my Dad though, he's done everything he can to help me overcome my shyness, while loving me unconditionally.
