I am so devastated! I had a job transfer 4 months ago and that caused my fiance to temporarily move in with his brother for a few months until I got transfered back to Orlando. We were together for 4 years and lived together for the past year. We were to get married at the end of this year and I loved him deeply. I am angry, hurt and disgusted to find out that he was messing around with his brother's fiance who has 4 kids for his brother. He called me on the cell phone and didnt realize it was recording when I heard them together. She was telling him to stop and that she didnt want to do it again because it was wrong. Hearing him trying to pursue the situation was so painful. He then called me like everything was fine a few minutes later. I didnt check my messages until the next day and that is when I heard what had been going on. After several attempts to lie about the situation he finally told me that it was just a joke to make me jealous. I havent heard a lame excuse like that since JR High. I know that it is over and I deserve better, but it disturbs me that I was with someone with obiviously no morals and it disgusts me that he is still sticking to his story and not telling the truth. I am so hurt right now and I dont now how to start getting over this. His brother has left his fiance now as a result and tells me to keep my head up and move on, but it is so hard after years of thinking that you know someone then you find out that you really dont know them at all. I need encouragement and any good word to get me through this time. Especially if anyone has gone through something similar. I hate him, but of course still love him, but of course know that I could never be with him again. How do you get over this?????
