I have a friend at university and we used to be really close. We lived next door to each other and told each other pretty much everything. I'm on holiday from university at the moment but towards the end of term, he and I seemed to be growing more distant and he said that I'd really changed. However, none of my other friends have noticed anything really. I have started to go out more and have become more confident and gained more friends but apart from that... Anyway, at the beginning of the holiday we had some large arguments over yahoo and he said I'd really hurt him and still insisted I'd changed. We then didn't speak for 8 weeks because he said he needed space. We're talking again now but I feel he doesn't respect me at all. He said he dislikes my entire personality but yet still respects me and he said I was the type of person he would usually hate. I mean how can that work? However, he did say he can still trust me and wants to tell me things he can't tell anyone else. I'm just really confused and don't know what has gone wrong. Until now I just accepted it was all my fault but now know that it isn't and that he should accept me for who I am or not at all. I really want to save our friendship but I don't think he realises how much he's hurt me by saying all these things and I really can't understand how I've changed that much. He shouldn't be able to make me this unhappy but he does. I want things as they were.
