Hey thanks for reading. Well I'll begin by saying that I love my girlfriend very, very much. She is my best friend and is there for me always. We've been together for a total of 2 years and I do not see any end in sight.
Well we are sexually active, and that is part of my problem. When we had first started have sex, it was great. It was spontaneous, and just full of passion. We communicated well about it and it was never a real issue of anything.
After awhile it actually turned into something we just DID, not something where I could honestly say that everytime It was romantic and thoughtful, I actually hadn't realized it when it was even happening.
Well for a summer I had to move away to help my family for a couple months, this was about a couple hours from my girlfriend. I could visit my girlfriend occasionally. Although when i visited her, her sex drive seemed to have been lost. This was when I noticed that we had a problem, or was it. . I moved back and it still seemed to be the same. I keep telling myself that it is my fault that she no longer desires to be "close" to me on that level because i took for granted all of those times that we had sex just because.
I've got to be honest, I love sex...But I can without a doubt do without it. My girlfriend and I still do things but everytime it is me initiating it. She enjoys it just as she did before, just now she never initiates it at all. Why is this....Should I just give up all together on the sexual part of the relationship, or is there something I can do that can give us back that spark.
Sorry If I jumped around in this post a lot, Just looking for some insight. Thanks a lot.
