During a training seminar at work I met a coworker from the same region of the world I am (which doesn't happen often). He seemed a nice enough guy. We talked about our spouses, our families, etc.
He works at another division, so after the seminar I didn't see him for 6 months. We coincided again about a month ago. I suggested we had a coffee after work to catch up. We did, and we had a pleasant chat. I talked about it with my husband, and we were thinking of inviting him and his wife over for dinner.
About a month after that he asks me again for coffee. I though it was nice of him. It all started like last time. We talked about his kids, my dog, my husband, work, and all of a sudden he starts telling me how pretty I am, how he can't stop thinking of me, that he wants to have an affair with me!
I was so shocked! How can someone go from talking about his kids, to proposing such a thing? I never hinted any interest at all. Trust me, I'm the least flurty woman you'll meet.
I, of course, said no. I was so shocked I sort of just kept making small chat after that. Now that I've had time to absorb what happened, I feel very angry. Who does he think he is? What kind of woman does he think I am? I've never been disrespected like this before.
I feel so angry all the time! I wish I had thrown my coffee on his face or slapped him. I just want to tell him what a pig he is. I want him to know that if he as much as says hi to me again, I'll file a sexual harassments complaint. Should I write an email to him? or should I just let go?
