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her intensions seem good... but she is just more open about sexuality then I am...I really think it's just because I grew up very conservative.. And when it comes to sex.. I don't want to share her even in a fantasy .. just my opinion.. maybe i'm being to controlling..and jealous..and that's what I cannot figure out is that I am usually not a jealous person..
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Well that's just it,,, i am unsure that she will do this.. being that she has thought about it in the past with her ex.. so I guess i'm alittle hesitant at pursuing this relationship...
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Mabye it a my issue of not talking about such fantasies because I very private about things one being sex.. and never had a woman open up like that to me..
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I just think my last post says why I am feeling the way (alittle background as to why i feel this way) about her and her fantasy.. and why I feel threatened by this...
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ok well - I probably should'nt get too personal about this.. but she mentioned that her and her ex would discuss a possible threesome and very involved in porn,, and they even thinking about putting a sex video on the net.. So yeah I guess im alittle feeling alittle aprehensive of taking this " relationship " to the next level.. because my intention is NOT just a sexual relationship.. If it was just sexual then I would NOT have a problem at all with her fantasy == if that makes sense...
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No It actually turned me off.. and thought " is this a relationship or does she just think it's sexual " because I had started to really like her.. and not just sexual like the past girlfriends...
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Wow. ok women are more open about sexuality then I thought.. like i mentioned before was married since i wsa 20... and didn't get to experience alot of dating.. the last 4 yrs have just been light dates... nothing serious... I have dated 6 women in the last 4 yrs... but non have been so explicit about this type of sexual fantasy...so yeah it was kind of a surprise... and the women i dated were very sexual...
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Yeah I guess that would be a turn on.. I guess need to not have such a double standard...
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Yeah ,,, me and my ex-wife had a great sex life.. but fantasies like that were never brought up. My ex-wifes fantasy was Sean Connery... of which didn't threaten me at all... So after hearing this "fantasy" of my girlfriend it was a big surprise..guess I need to date more and learn...
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Im 37 - but I am divorced as of 4 yrs ago... I was married when I was 20.. married over 10 + yrs so i didn't have alot of dating nor experience so that's probably why my opinion is so narrow....
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Are there any guys out there that would feel alittle threatened If your girlfriend says that her fantasy is to 2 guys.. or am i the only one.. I can't be.. Mind you this is a girlfriend that you care for very deeply... maybe it's a trust issue..
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okay good point.. I guess i still feel alittle jealous... Another thing is that I feel that are relationship is now just sexual.. after her fantasy comment.. maybe im insecure about this relationship - guess it's my issue to deal with... from the responses..
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Yeah I guess it's a double standard... But i guess it's a whole big world out there and I must have alot to learn... And with my upbringing it was always a no no for girls to talk about that stuff or they were deemed " trashy " but it was ok for us guys to talk about it.. - I know double standard...
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Yeah I can't lie - I have thought of having multiple women - kinda like hefner.. But I guess it's culture or maybe the individual.. as I am from a strict catholic background and never heard a woman say that - that i have been with anyway... but i guess I did think ( " trashy" ) just my opinion....
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My position - I had a girlfriend that smoked weed.. I don't care for using drugs - maybe a drink on occasion... but her lifestyle finally wore us out... and we did brake up.. I guess it's up to her.. choice. and your being able to cope... It's hard when you begin to care as I did.. but I believe it was worth it in the long run for me... maybe your situation is different....
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My girlfriends fantasy bothers me.. maybe I don't understand how women.. think about fantasies.. Here is her fantasy.. she said that her fantasy is to be with 2 men having sex and performing vairous sex acts... Is this normal or is she just very sexual... After she said that.. my opinion of her has changed and I being a jerk? Thinking of her now in a different way that i don't want her as a girlfriend.. because now it just seems that it's just sexual... Any advise... comments