I am new to this site, however, I would love some input from everyone. I'll try to keep it short... My husband and I have been married for 3 years. I'm 27 and he is 35. I really enjoy sex and he used to. When we do have sex, it's awesome! I am very open minded and will do almost anything to and with him. I enjoy doing things that most men wish their wives would do. I'm in great shape, (I train horses for a living) and have tons of self-confidience. Many people have said that they were surprised I married him because he is your average "Joe" and I'm such a "hottie". However, I don't feel that way. He's my baby. He seems like he's just not attracted to me anymore. I think I have tried just about everything. We have sex about once every 2 months and I feel like I have to beg. When we do, he seems like he really enjoys it. But when it's over, it's over. I have tried backing off and just acting like his best friend (I am) then after a month of that, getting in the shower with him... nothing. One time we didn't have sex for over a month. He was in bed watching TV and I came to bed naked. I started masturbating next to him. He said, "I'm sorry honey, let me move over so you have more room." Then turned up the TV.
I hope I gave you enough info, if I didn't, please ask any questions. What am I doing wrong?
Thanks for your help.
