I've been married for 2 years now, and my wife and I have a 2 year old son. I am 23 and she is almost 22 now. At first, our sex life was amazing, but over the years, its decreased so much that now she doesnt feel any sexual desire for me anymore. She works evenings to support the familiy while I go to school during the day, so we only really see each other late at night and on the weekends. She is a very independent person, too, and likes to go out by herself or with her friends, without me. We thought that her lack of desire was a physical problem, but her hormones checked out just fine. Just recently, she went out by herself, and met a guy that she told me she was sexually attracted to. That scared her, because she knows she has the ability for sexual desire, just not for me. We are best friends, we communicate pretty well, and are very affectionate for each other. She is a very sexual person, and her lack of sexual fulfillment is making her very unhappy. We are seeking marital counseling now, but she its so hard to see her be so confused about this, when I am totally the opposite. I just need someone to tell me this is natural and that it can be easily fixed, because I am still so madly in love with her...
