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I understand what you are saying, but I didn't put all of those things together until after we broke up. You're are right, it really doesn't matter bc we are not together anymore. But it would help me cope if I knew. Everything was great and said he wasn't ready for a commited relationship. (which could be true. Maybe he's afraid of commiment and that's why he's never had a long relationship.) But I think it might be more and I'd just like opinions of others weather those signs lead to him being gay, or even bi sexual...

And also he's never had a relationship over 5 months. which I guess doesn't say to much. But he stated how he broke up with most of his girlfriends and he's had quite a few.

Hi everyone, Ok, so my exboyfriend broke up with me not so long ago and i've been having a pretty hard time coping. My best friend and I were talking today and she brought up a whole list of things that indicated he was gay.( I told her everything in our relationship) I actually sat back and was in shock and never put together all of the signs. I think he might be..Now I don't want to confront him on this, hence I don't want to speak with him. But this is something I'd like to know. I don't have any gay friends so I'm just wondering if there are any homosexual guys or anyone who have friends that are gay that can give me advice. The reasons I think he is: 1. The first week we went out he told me that when he was in college, there was a moment he "thought he might be gay" he never acted on it, and "every guy has that moment in there life at some point whether or not they admit it" 2. He has a million girlfriends 3. Everywhere we went, every show we watched he had to tell me how pretty every girl was. (maybe bc he had to reassure himself?) ..(he would compliment me too, but every single pretty girl he had to say something) 4. He didn't have sex with me often, and when we did a lot of times he would loose his erection in the middle of it. 5. He loved anal sex. That's all he wanted to do, and he was always fully aroused when we did that. and that's pretty much it. I mean the way he acted, he talked very proper and he dressed nice, but I guess that doesn't mean anything.. So what do you guys think