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I get a boner just from talking to my girlfriend... let alone making out with her...

 

Lol, damn, just thinking about her gets me hard...

the guy i am talking to know also gets one. u can just tell because he breaths hard oer the phone. lol i really like it . omg huge turn on!!

It is a nice challenge but i know i can't stick it out all he way. we talk on the phone like everyother week and hes my ex. its just weird. thanks

* * *!? i dont know what to do guys

the letter was good but yous seem like you were flirting. lol you old basterds lol j/k i dont c my self in that situation but i would say its a nice letter to writte to someone that you broke up with. peace and good luck dude

u are luck that u dnt have to wear skirts. I wear skirts all the time cus of my doctrin and stuff. Well i would syathat you can gettthem bigger if you go for bike rides. That helps. good luck

I believe in God

God does speak to us. We just have to puse and listen, He is amazing

yes God does speak, he did when I ask him for something, he answers me and it is nice i would dsay.

I think if you are alone in life, that would not really matter but if you have God in your life then I dont think that would really matter if you had a bf or gf before.

and dont worry about it i dont think it is a dumb question, it is just real life some people actually live without really haveing a famillly or what ever

I know it is weird that We didnt kiss while dating, he was my first bf and i never really kissed a boi before. Anyways we never kissed because we were both very shy and like when we were together that never came up. We never really talked about it in person just when we were on the phone, that came up. And well what should i do guys? kiss him or what?

Clementine ur silly lol

One more thing was it when u guys were dating then i think that wud be different

I would probably take him back if he slept with sum 1 when we were broken up, if he slept with that sum 1 when we were together tthen it would all depend on how i feel for him, if i really love the guy i would give him 1 more chance like i would tell him, this is ur last chance u beta not mess up, it wud depend if i got love for him or if u really feel hurt by it they that is u

I hope this helps good luck girla!!!a1

I think you should tell the girl that you like her and see where it goes from there you nerve know cause she can have feelings for you also.

lieing is bad so i would say that whoever that persoon is, he isnt very found of you.

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I love my ex to do this to him I cant do this even if i badly would like to I wouldnt last long AT ALL!!!

Im a girl but if I said that to my bpyfriend it wouldnt be like I was telling him something bad or trying to make him feel bad its just probably the way she feels about you.That is really nice though.

And besudes who cares about looks i sure dont and what is inside counts.

Your post just made me smile too.......

 

One thing to remember...you telling him your feelings and wants, aren't

going to change his feelings and wants. And may even push him even further away. You need to do things that you "know" cause a positive reaction in him.

(ex: when you don't call, he calls)

 

And i totally understand how hard it is NOT to call...BUH-LIEEEEVE me!!!

But i also know that it gets easier once you're busy and have other things going on in your life.

(But i am SO the wrong person to give out advice on how to do this...lol)

 

Anyway...good luck to you.

And keep us posted on how things go.....

I have actually noticed this already, when u keep doing other things they will call, and i pronise to keep u posted bye

are you serious? you are smoking weed? That isnt going to cure anything dude.You should try to move on you know date around and have fun. MAybe be friends with her for know and give her space and see where it goes from there k hope it helps.

Well you could wait next 4 years.

You don't believe when I say what is now counts and what he does instead says counts? Thats the rule number one in saving your heart.

No no i do believe that and that does make sense. I understand that becasue what he does speak louder then the words you know like you said it counts and thats important to me. He cares about me and I know he love me just doesnt want to commit OMG ARRRRGGGG!!!!!!

I wouldn't wait around waiting for him to make a move that you're really not sure is ever going to be made.

 

While you're backing off and giving him space, I would go out and do your own thing. Meet other people. Hang out with friends. Date others. Have fun. Don't let him think you're at his beck and call.

When he calls....be busy sometimes. Let him wonder about what you're doing. It's intriguing.

 

When others see that a person has a full, enriching life it makes them so much more attractive to them than if they see (think) you're just sitting around waiting for them...

you know what your post just mad me smile the part where a person would like to see that you have a life and that you are just not sitting around witing for him. That is true. BUt for some reason I still think that I should ask him to be my man again. Oh yeah and when he calls me I just talk to him like if I wasnt doing anything.

I just thought of a day when I didnt call him for two days straight he found thtat weird and he was the one calliing me, He was like why i wasnt calling him and i was like ive been busy. That also helps cause when u dont call a boy they will wonder about you and they will end up calling you.

The thing is that I just get tempted to call him. What should I do to not call him any more? But thanks again. It has been very good advice

I think I amjust going to leave it alone for know i hope i can do that.

Well I also write WHAT IS NOW COUNTS AND WHAT HE DOES INSTEAD SAYS COUNTS.

 

So you are o.k. with him not wanting to be with you right now and you are willing to wait for his no guarantee "yeah, I think so"?

Is this enough for you?

For how long are you going to wait?

Is there a solid proof he will be with you in the future except his "yeah, I think so"?

ok well i will wit until i guess he asks me out if that ever happeneds and there is proof that we will be together in the future becasue we have been in contact for like four years. I think that is enough right??don know

Well:

YOU = are in love with him+want to be with him

HE = calls you as a friend+says he doesn't want to be with you

 

Intensity of feelings YOU>HE

 

What is now counts and what he does instead says counts.

Based on that I wouldn't be his friend because friendship is not what you want.

Ok thanks for your post but he didnt say that he never wanted to be with me, he just said that he doesnt want to be in commited relationship right now, he sai din the future so i dont think thats the same thing that i said when i posted that

You say when you don't call him, he ends up calling you...

So my advice would be to just back off a bit and give him some space.

Give him a chance to miss you...and see how it goes from there.

Thank you, eveyone is starting to say that maybe i should give him some space and im starting to think thats what i should do thatnk you guys

Thanks Batya33, that was good advice but its like he wants to be with me at least thats waht he told me but he doesnt want to aommit to anything. And your right, I cant make him be in a relationship that he doesnt want to be in. I maybe think this because he always call me and like we have very nice conversations. I dont know I LOOOOve him sOOooo much but I think ima do this not call him today and if he does call me today then ill just tell him that he has to decide, i dont know

Any more advice guys!!!!! I am like confused right now.