I broke up with my, now ex-boyfriend, about a week ago. Mainly because consistently he would get drunk at parties and hook up with a good number of girls, and it wouldn't just be making out. He knew I had problems with it, but he kept doing it. We went out for 9 months and we were happy, we were a good couple and had an honest and open relationship.
After the break up, I wanted to remain in no contact with him, to allow the sadness to fade, for the first couple days he would call me and leave messages of him crying and being completely miserable...the phone calls stopped after about 3 days. I was doing much much better.
Yesterday I find out (from one of my best friend's who is also pretty good friends with him) that he's been sleeping around with girls for the past few days. Like he would call them up and have sex with them and be completely open about it and tell everyone that he just got laid and all the details and crap. He was the kind of hookup guy before we started dating, but when we were in the relationship, he was so....into me...like head over heels crazy in love. And, he knew that I wanted to wait until marriage for sex, and he respected that and he always told me how he wanted to wait for the right girl etc.
And now...he's just sleeping with a different girl everynight...has he gotten over me that quick?! Did I mean nothing to him?! Maybe it's not my business to care because we are broken up, but it hurts...so much. What's going on in his brain?
