I am happily married for 8 years and have two wonderful children with my husband. We have had our problems, like any other couple but I took it too far. I became attracted to a married co-worker and after nearly a year of flirting and spending time together we had sex. I can't tell you how much I hate myself for doing this and wish that I could take it back. I don't think that I could ever tell my husband about this because it would crush him and I do love him and would hate to put him thru that. I think about this all of the time and it is truly killing me! I find myself becoming more distant from my family and they don't deserve this. I made a huge mistake and just want to get over it. To make matters worse, I believe my co-worker has been talking. I expressed my feelings to him and he knows that I was not happy about what we had done. He promised to keep it quiet and we have not talked about it. But I notice that other male co-workers treat me differently (more flirty with me) and I can't say or do anything about it. I really need some advice here...PLEASE HELP!
