Hi my name is Ashley
I'm currently 8 months pregnant, and thought I was going to be engaged to the man of my dreams. 3 days before our big weekend getaway, (I knew he was going to pop the question, he told me) anyway. I was cleaning out room and opened the bottom drawer of his nightstand to put some stuff away and saw a piece of paper, with a login name, password, and web address on it. Normally I would not do anything, but the username, was very sexually explicit. Concerned.... I went to our computer and logged in and pulled the website, to my surprise it was a website for swingers (and personal adds of people looking for sex partners. I logged in as him and pulled up his profile and stuff, and what I read hurt me so badly I don't know if I could ever look at him the same. I approached him about this and he tried to tell me it was a long time ago, but I said so someone is magically logging in as you.. Cause your last login date was 2 weeks ago. He was caught. That did not matter to him he just kept lying. Well He promised never to visit the site again. Not trusting him anymore I put a system snooped type program on the computer and it has been clean for a while. Until last night I ran it and he had visited the site again, looked at profile of women who had "winked"" at him, and updated his profile, this time his profile, he took out the really sexually explicit part and the part about him being attached. Now. I'm a forgiving person and willing to give him a chance. I understand it is hard to go from being a single guy, to having a girlfriend, then oops she pregnant then to engagement I don't know if this is some weird thing he needs to do, to cope with the fact that he is settling down, or what. But I made him cry supposedly today. I sent him a text message and told him that no one in my life has ever made me feel as crappy, ugly, unwanted and just plain used in my entire life. I told him that since I'm so forgiving that he has 4 strikes. Right now he has 2. After 3 strikes, I take the Internet away, after 4 I leave, no questions. If I find out that he has slept with someone else, it is over that counts as 2 strikes and I'm gone. SO that is my story. Not sure really what to do about it. Just stick to my guns