tiffanyambergirl

I must say that it has crossed my mind that that may be the problem. Either I'm in denial but he is in his early 20s....I like the age excuse MUCH better

On a serious note...I appreciate your input and it scares me if your answer really is the answer to this "problem", the hand between his legs, I have asked him about it and he just says that "it feels good". Well DUH , I'm lost

yes i understand. probably just the age, too horny and a bit immature? i mean he should realise to respect you and realise sometimes cuddling watching a movie together is better than having your hand between his legs.

thats the way I feel, but I guess maybe it is the age...I don't know

think about it this way. its better than if he didnt want to make love to you at all when you would feel unattractive and upset, there are alot of stories like that here

Yes I'm VERY well aware of that, but at the same time it is a little annoying when sometimes for example you just feel like cuddling with your significant other with out him putting your hand on his private and making you feel him up the minute you two lay down.

guys are horny all the time. Just tell him you don't want it everyday

I do tell him that and when I do he gets upset, starts questioning me why I don't want it and when I say "well I'm not horny" he gets all upset and leaves.

I don't think he comprehends the fact that sometimes I'm simply not horny....

Ok, I've been dating my partner for about two years on and off. In the beginning we were only just buddies with benefits, we saw eachother few times a week and would mainly just hook up everytime. Technically we've been officially dating for about a year and a half, in the beginning we would see eachother often and our sex life was pretty much on the same page.

For the past about six months, we've been seeing eachother almost everyday and I love it! BUT there is a small problem. He wants to have sex everyday, few times a day and I don't. For example, we will watch tv, the min we both sit down he will take my hand and put it on his ..... ..., sometimes I'll refuse cuz I find it annoying and he will get all upset that I don't want to touch him. Basically everytime we are alone, the minute we are alone (and I'm not exaggerating) he will make me play with his privates. He wants to have sex all the time! and as much as I like it, I don't. I'd be perfectly happy with us doing it every other day. I don't know what the problem is, but I feel like this difference between us is putting a big burden on our relationship. Not to mention we both still live at home and I just don't feel comfortable letting lose with my parents in the next room. Whenever I refuse him, he gets mad and leaves.

Is it normal to be THAT horny?!??? or the fact that I don't NEED it everyday makes me un normal? we are both in our mid twenties, granted he is couple yrs younger then me but nontheless, we are both in our mid 20s.

Please tell me how I can fix this problem of ours before its too late, I DO want to make this work and do NOT want to break up

You may disagree, but you can also tell a lot about a person's actions when you look at subtleties.

 

Doesn't sound like a scene I would be in, especially if I had a S.O.

 

Why drive 2 hours away just for that kind of a party? Why put myself in that kind of situation? What for?

 

In my opinion, it isn't necessary, especially if I had a bf I was really into. Instead, hypothetically, knowing that if he was a bartender, I would consider the fact that "Hey, my bf might be hungry after work. Maybe we can go to Denny's or something after he gets off work." I'd rather be there with/for him him, rather than 2 hours away at some crazy party scene.

 

It's the little things that say a lot.

see this is the way I see it, but I don't want to sound like I'm limiting him from being with his friends. And I also don't think I should mention that to him, or should I? alot of people don't see things this way.

I just re-read your post.

You haven't told him you're not comfortable with him going? I'd definitely tell him that. Communicate your feelings with him....The decision ultimately his, But at least he knows how you feel about this & why you feel that way. Hopefully he takes that into consideration.

if he still chooses to go - trust him to go. Or find a man that doesn't feel the need to party.

I know I should trust him, I just don't trust other people. He is the type of guy that is very approachable and he is very goodlooking, girls flirt with him ALL THE TIME, even in front of me and he just laughs it off cuz he is too nice to say back off. I'm trying soo hard to be that girlfriend that doesnt set limits for her bf, and I know that if I tell him I'm not comfortable with him going he won't go. And I don't want to hold him back, I guess I just don't know what is right and wrong this situation. I'm so confused

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Around your chin? (That's where my period spots come!). Seems to help when I cut down on caffeine, smoking and booze, and drink loads of water. I also take a vitamin skin supplement which has helped. And I use clinique 7 day exfoliating cream, that also seems to help. It's so frustrating, isn't it?

Yes, right on the bottom of the chin and sometimes on my jawline. It's very annoying

Hey,

I keep getting reoccurring pimples in the same spot over and over again every month, right before my period. Does anyone know of any good and strong anti-acne cleansers, or creams to treat these? I religiously cleanse my face with a face anti acne cleanser, but I still seem to get these two or three pimples in the same spot every month. It is sooo annoying

Thanks everyone

Perhaps you should give her some time to get over things, it has only been a week since you guys broke up. The more you try to contact her the further you may drive her away. Give her some time and then text/call "just to say hi" and see how things progress from then.

I don't understand your question.... do you have to be nude? from the waist down, yes. how else will the waxer take off your hair? as for how hairy, 1/8th of an inch should be enough. you should call them and ask though.

well I don't really care if they see me nude, I just don't want to look dumb and not know what to do

I'm thinking of getting a brazilian wax. I just wanted to know the "requirements"....I have no idea how else to ask this but how hairy do you have to be? and do you have to be completely nude or do they do it in parts.

Sorry to be so blunt

Thanks in advance!

Thanks, I appreciate your response. I understand that I needed to give myself time before getting into another relationship. And I certainly didn't plan on it, but it happened. And I don't want to let go of someone who is so perfect just to give myself time to heal. I almost feel like he IS helping me heal.

Also not sure if this makes any difference but I've known this guy for yrs.

Hi Everyone!

I have no idea what is going on with me, maybe you guys could shed some light on this if its normal.

I dated and was engaged to a guy for two yrs. Him and I had the most love/hate relationship. When we weren't arguing we were perfect, absolutely perfect and very intense. But when we argued, we didn't have one of those fights when you argue and make up later, we wouldnt make up till next day at least. Usually our fights were about a stupid thing that shouldn't even been brought up but somehow we always ended up arguing. I'll be honest, I loved that man so much, he was the love of my life, I honestly don't think I'll ever love anyone THAT much. Our chemistry was inexplicable. We broke up because he couldn't take the arguing anymore and said it would be better if we don't get married. Our breakup was pretty brutal and we broke up on bad terms. That was over six months ago.

For the past 5 months I've been dating a wonderful, wonderful guy. if I had a list of the perfect bf it would describe the guy I'm dating. We have awsome communication, awesome time, awesome everything. We get along perfectly, it is almost as if we were made for eachother. And I do care deeply for him but I can't seem to get my ex out of my mind and I feel guilty. I feel guilty for not being able to give my heart to my current bf like I did to my ex, I feel guilty because I do think about my ex all the time. I'm trying to move on, and I think I have but even when I push my ex out of my head during the day, I dream about him all the time My dreams are usually about me seeing my ex somewhere and trying to get his attention. Everyone tells me that in time this shall pass. But I know in my heart that I'll never love anyone like I love my ex fiance, and it kills me, because I want to. I guess I just wanted to vent and see if anyone has been in similar situation as this, and how can I stop the dreams? Everytime I wake up from those dreams, I get really upset. Because it feels as if I'm re living the breakup again, and it eats me inside.

My feeling is when someone says something there IS some truth to it. I don't buy the excuse of people being angry and things getting out. You are responsible for comes out of your mouth. So if I"m the guy and someone I care for says that for me, I would walk OR more likely, say something about her that I was holding back lol.

 

I mean it all depends on the guy but I know for a fact that I may forgive, but I wouldn't forget.

Tiredman...I was hoping for more reassuring advice ](*,) I tell him how great he is all the time and to a point yes I guess after all this time I expect our sex life to be better not worse. And he did say something to me that was hurtful as well which I won't get into now and frankly I don't blame him. I guess I just want to know how I can show him that it's not him, its me. Words can mean only so much. Ah I'm confusing myself now

Do any men have a say about this?

Thanks everyone

Ok my bf and I always had great sex till couple months ago when I had problems with my lower region (really bad irritation). I went to a doc and after a week I was fine. But ever since then I haven't been ok down there. I became extremely sensitive to touch and it just doesn't feel as good as it used to. (doctor doesn't know what the problem is). Anyway, the other day my bf and I were fooling around and I wasn't enjoying it because it actually hurt from too much sensitivity. I got really really frustrated and my bf and I got into a little argument about something completeley different and in the midst of our argument I blurted out that I don't enjoy our sex like I used to

I feel horrible and I know I hurt his ego. I don't know how I can take it back. Ahh. Any advice please?

So last night my bf and I were talking about exes. He told me how his ex (that he dated few yrs ago for a long time, was his first love blah blah blah) broke up on good terms and she might come back here in November (she lives out of state) and asked me if I would get mad if he hanged out with her. I chose to kinda ignore the question and told him I would be upset. Later on in the evening I asked him if he'll hang out with her and he didn't answer, I kept asking so finally he said he lied about it and doesnt know when she'll come back. I got extremely mad and told him that I dont deal with lies and I find it really strange how he knows all these details of her arrivals whether they are lies or not and told him to leave my house.

The funny thing is that couple months ago when she was here, I asked him if I should be worried about it and he said he hates her guts and that she is a b****.....few weeks ago he told me she texted him and they had a nice text convo. * * * is going on, the story keeps changing. Am i overreacting? At the moment I am not speaking to him, should I call or should I wait for his call? I hate these games, but I am very sensitive when it comes to people lying to me, I lose trust in people really fast.

with my previous relationship, as soon as I let my guard down and let all my feelings out we broke up soon after. I don't want that to happen now. Maybe I'm just a chicken head

I think I'm scared of putting myself in a vulnerable position like that again. It's such a weird feeling, I want him to know how much I care about him I'm just afraid? not sure if this makes much sense

So the other day my bf and I were laying in bed and he traced "I love you" on my back. He has never said those words to me and that's the first time he admitted that he feels that way about me. The thing is that I couldn't say it back to him, in fact I'm petrified of falling in love with him. I was in a serious relationship long time ago where I put my whole guard down and obviously it didnt work out. Ever since then I have a hard time letting myself feel for someone past a certain point. I care about him so much, he is perfect in so many ways and makes me sooooo happy. How do I overcome my fear of falling in love? am I weird for feeling this way? We have been together for over a year, he has always been there for me and I don't want to lose him.

Thanks...