fizzled0ut

i dont feel she was trying to make herself feel better or make her ex jealous. She just doesnt have any reason to do that...She said that their relationship has been on the rocks for the past 6 months or so now...i just didnt realize that she had this many issues...

Hey guys i am new to this forum. I have anyways been able to figure out what to do in different scenarios but ive never been involved in a triangle. Usually I try to stay away from that stuff. This time i couldnt help myself...So I met this girl randomly at her workplace and got her number not knowing that she had a boyfriend at the time. I give it the standard 3 day window of waiting before I call. We talk on the phone for a few hours and I find out that she's seeing someone that she has been on and off with for 3 years...3 must be the magical number or something...After the initial phone conversation i decide that i want to keep back and not interfere. We continue talking on and off for the next few weeks and all of the sudden i started getting drunk text msgs from her wanting to see me so we can hang out...we go out, get a few drinks, etc...i later find out she's been on break with her boyfriend. We keeping seeing each other and hanging out and geniunely begin to like this girl. She officially breaks up with her boyfriend. I also find out that she has been on several breaks with her ex and has dated a few guys in between. She says she feels nothing for her ex and laughs off every one of his attempts to get her back. She also said this was the first time that she didnt care that they had broken up....She even goes to his apt and takes all her stuff back out. Her ex is desparate to get her back. He is much older than she is and is looking to get married sometime in the future. She doesnt want this...I, being much closer to her age was ok what the fact that she didnt want anything like that... Her first point of breakdown came when her ex gave back all their stuff to her. She couldnt handle it and broke down. She was very depressed and she came over so I could comfort her. It seemed to have worked at the time. Another weeks goes by great...After we come back from a weekend getaway over the holidays i get txt msg saying she's trying to work things out with her ex...TOTAL SHOCK TO ME.... Seems that she cant get over the 3 years and the history that they had together. I dont thinks she knows what she wants...Baggage... Thoughts?