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  1. Also, I forgot to mention that we had sex the second night of knowing each other. I realize that this is 50% my fault, but this also bothers me. But, I want everyone reading this to realize that I am absolutely, 100% not afraid of her cheating on me, I know she won't do that.
  2. I have currently been dating my girlfriend for 5 months. I am 19 yrs. old and a junior in college. I have had past experiences with other girlfriends in which I have been hurt and cheated on. My girlfriend currently is perfect, everything i could ever ask for, nice, honest, and I know I can trust her. My one and only true problem is her past. She is a year younger and in her first semester at the college we both attend, kissed 9 people, slept with 5 (4 in the same fraternity), fooled around (fingering, etc...) with 5, and had sex with 2. This bothers me. I have discussed it with her numerous times and she normally breaks down suggesting she only did it because she felt peer pressured as she is a very passive person who will basically do whatever anyone asks her to do. Other than that, she had sex with two ex-boyfriends in high school. I do not like making her cry or feel bas about herself but I oftentimes cannot get this out of my head and it gives me terrible headaches and lots of stress. She is basically the type of girl I need at this time in my life and is everything I could ask for and more. I also wish not to be a hypocrite because I have actually slept with more people then her. What suggestions, if any, do you have regarding how I should handle the situation? I want the thought of her past out of my head, and quite frankly, I wish she never told me. Honestly, do you believe it will ever leave? Or should I just pick up and move on with my life and break up with her?
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