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when u say light hearted u mean like i ask her kinder over a joke or sumthing right?

hey, ok basically i like this girl alot, she knows i like her and hasnt avoided me so i think ive got a chance, but ive been to afriad to make a move yet, now on friday theres a party it should be rather small say 10 ppl max, and shes goin, and i want to chat to her, maybe even ask her out if i get that lucky, but i dont know how to act or wat to say, im quite a *** at these things, even walking up and starting a convo with her is kinder hard, im just scared ill scare her away, just wondering if anyone could give me some advice thanks.

hey, basically i like one of my friends, and she has asked me to go to the movies with her and some other friends (boys and girls) on friday night. basically i want to tell her how i feel bout her before goin to the movies on friday night but i dont know how and im worried if i say sumthing wrong it might ruin our friendship.

yea i can see ur point, i just thought it was a gentlement kinder thing to do, like u know first impressions of being nice and caring and all but yea i do see ur point she might think i want sumthing

thanks for the advice and the warm greeting. yea the first one does sound kinder better, say if i do succeed and she says yes, would i be over-reacting by buying her a gift and giving it to her when we meet up on the first date (say flowers for example) and paying for her movie ticket ect.

sweet thnx, yea im gonna ask this week, next time im with her alone and it feels right, the matrix reloaded is coming out this weekend maybe i can go see that with her what would u say the best way to ask her is though, just the usual "Do you wanna go out sometime?" or "I'd like to take you out on the weekend ,that is ofcourse if ur not busy?" heh i was gonna ask her before i was in the perfect situation but i just couldnt get the words i kinder was like shocked or sumthing it wouldnt come out, thanks for all the help so far

hey im new to these forums so i wanna start of by saying hi, ok heres my situation, i like this girl who ive been gettin pretty close to the past few months, i mean like goin out in groups with other ppl and talking to her alot at lunch time, recess and on MSN , ive known her for quite awhile its just been the past few months ive been gettin close. she knows i like her thanks to a friend but she doesnt mind, she acts like she doesnt even know, she isnt scare or anything - so i believe if i do ask her out there will be 2 situations, 1 - she says yes 2- she says she just wants to be friends my friends reckon she flirts with me when she comes up to talk to me and touches my shoulder occasionally when talking, and how she makes eye contact and smiles when talking to me, but she does this to a few guys so i dont know. basically i just wanted to see wat other ppl thought, and when i ask her out wat should i say?