I have gone nuts the last 6 weeks thinking that my wife was fooling around. I had asked her several times with the same old answer "no, there is no one else". Her family has all the same history of doing the same thing. I want to save my marriage first of all. Second, I now have the proof that she has feelings for somone else. Third, I am know in the mode to get my ducks in a row finacially and emotionally to be able to handle what is going on. I guess I need advice on the following questions.
1. How to confront her with this info?
2. Are e-mails enough ammo to get her to admit the situation? They say "I love talking with you; I like being with you, I wish it were more"
3. He lives in another city, She has made plans to go be with him, while I watch the kids. How do I avoid this from happening? or should I let her go?
4. Someone told me to just let her do her thing and give her enough rope to hang herself. should I?
5. Should I send an email to him saying that a private investigator is watching his every move, being that he is married also?
Last one
6. Should I Send her a email that says that a family friend has proof that she is cheating and that she needs to admit to it and resolve the issues at home before doing this to the family or the proof will be sent to her husband?
I know that I'm not a perfect person, but I have always been faithfull and have given this women everything I can to make a happy life.
Thanks for the help!
