Hey, I'm new to this board and i've got to say it has helped me cope with this breakup. I just wanted to know what would be the best thing that I should do right now. Well, heres the story, I've been dating my girlfriend of 6 years ever since high school and we are currently attending the same university. I really did not know that there was something wrong with our relationship, until she told me that she felt we did not really appear to be a real couple. I admit that maybe I didn't treat her as well as I should have, and regret not treating her better. Well after she told me, we were deciding whether breaking up was the best thing to do, and fortunately we decided to give it another shot. Well the next day I could sense that her attitude towards me was very cold, she rarely talked to me and when she did, it was like I was a complete stranger to her. So I talked to her about this and she said that she felt like she didn't really love me anymore but she still liked me but that wasn't a good reason to stay together. We both agreed that maybe it would be best to break up as she saw no future with me. She also said that she just wanted to live the life of a single girl, doing whatever she wants, whenever she wants. I guess the breakup was on good terms. However, i'm not too sure I can really do the NC thing cos we both have the same group of friends and always see each other around school. I still love her dearly and am hoping that we can somehow get back together. What do you think is the best thing for me to do for the time being? Just move on or wait for her? Any comments would be greatly appreciated.
