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Did you ever try to see if the way you felt about those other girls was mutually felt? Or did you just say one day "I don't care if they like me also, I'm just going to move on with my current gf"

There is one person I'd love to experiment with actually. It's kinda hard to let her know. What would some girl want with a man who's been in a 5 year relationship and is now questioning himself over her. I'd imagine she wouldn't think much of him, because she doesn't want to be in my current girlfriends shoes.

I feel that if she isn't "the one" I wasted my college life. Yes 5 years is a long time. I would be very alone & scared if I lost her, she has turned into my best friend. Walking around campus knowing other girls, sometimes my gut is turning inside out wondering if what I have is all I'll ever have for the rest of my life.

First thought, even you are even considering breaking up there must be a problem. Yes there are problems. Quick info. 5 year relationship. Started in highschool, though community college, then a semi far distant relationship for the past 2 years at my 4 year college(1 hour drive). I only see her on TH, FRI, SAT It's one of those relationships where she puts more into it then I do. Is that a problem? I feel like i'm using her sometimes. I'm happy often, but not all time. Can a relationship like this last? I feel I've wasted my college life with this girl, because if this isn't "the one" then I feel i'm screwed. I feel a lot of regret now that I'm in my last semester here. I feel regret b/c I'm emotionally and physically attracted to other girls. I find people that fill in the holes that my current g/f has without the flaws. I don't even know if I have a chance often with these other girls, but me simplying thinking these things is not a good sign I assume. She can see us getting married, I can honestly believe I would be happy in that. It's wonderful to have someone there by your side. Is the grass greener on the other side? You always want what you don't have. In 3 months this is turning into an even longer "long distantance relationship" because I found a job in another city "the chance of a lifetime" job coming out of college. We will be about 3 hours apart. But she is willing to move down their with me after she finishes school in 1 year.