Drew

Thank you all for the replys if anyone has more please post ! I agree with alot of the suggestions . I will try some out! I also might talk to her a bit just on how she feels our relationship is going and in what direction and maybe open some doors up to see how she feels. There is no use in hidding feelings.

Hello, I have been in a relationship for 3 years now. I am 27 and currently living with my gf. I am at a stage in my life where I am looking at settling down once I get a few things in my life sorted out (i.e. good job, finish my schooling etc..) I am recently thinking more serious about how compatible my gf and I are. We have lived together for 6 months and I am not too sure exactly how I feel anymore. It seems like things are getting boring and life is becoming to be just the same old stuff over and over again. She is a great girl and I care about her a lot. I don't see me not being happy, but I can't say to myself that "she is the one" yet. We are very dependant on each other now that we have moved in together. In this day and age its hard to survive on your own with the cost of everything. I worry that if I said we should take a break we both would be struggling to survive. I know that might seem selfish but what do you do. So I guess my question is.. Do I have some sort of "cold feet", am I thinking too far ahead? I don't want to lead her on and then come to a complete realization that I don't want to be with her. I guess that's something I have to decide. Has anyone else been "unsure" at a similar stage in a relationship? Or should I expect my heart to just know the answer