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I'm the kind of person that tries hard not to come accross as obnoxious, so when I did brag about something (yes it was out of enthusiasm and excitement; we were talking about something in common), I felt really bad and kept playing the scenario over and over in my head. She's known me for quiet awhile now and before that incident, I never bragged to her about anything but that was before I started to like her. Now its different, when you like someone its so hard to be yourself.

um...where did all the ladies go? Just need some input gals just. I need women's input

I dont know. I mean I didn't really realize that I bragged until later on but the more I think of it the more I kicked myself in the back and its tough cause I dont see her until 2-3 weeks from now so I have all these scenarios playing on my head. I really hit off with this one and we have so much in common. Any thoughs from the ladies?

I was talking to this girl of interest (she knows me for about 8 months now and there's been flirting) and I kinda bragged about a material object. I know its something I should avoid but the conversation kinda got me going. So my question is (especially to the ladies) is that does this usually mean i hurt my chances? if you're interested in a guy, if he did brag this ONE TIME ONLY (becuase I never brag about material things until that instant), do you usually get turned off or do you look at it more if he does its all the time (brag all the time). I mean does ONE mistake usually break the deal or are most of you aware that when a guy does brag, he may be doing it beacuse he IS interested??

one thing I under emphasized was the fact that I kinda bragged about a material object. I know its something I should avoid but the conversation kinda got me going. So my question is (especially to the ladies) is that does this usually mean i hurt my chances? if you're interested in a guy, if he did brag this ONE TIME ONLY (becuase I never brag about material things until that instant), do you usually get turned off or do you look at it more if he does its all the time (brag all the time). I mean does ONE mistake usually break the deal or are most of you aware that when a guy does brag he may be doing it beacuse he IS interested?? please, I really need some feedback.

There's this girl I met a few months ago and we clicked right off. There was a mention of a BF but it seems she's ready to move on (I cant really tell you guys the detail because I'm afraid I'll give it away if she goes to this forum. I can be paranoid ). She approached me first (I wasn't attracted to her initially) then as I got to know her and found out we have a lot in common, I started to like her and we talked and flirted a lot. Last week however I made a big mistake. I got a chance to spend some extra time with her and for some reason I bragged about something (which I normaly dont do) I did it only once though. I guess I did that because it's a natural thing guys do when they like someone. Now I have a gut feeling that I turned her off. I tend to rely on gut feelings since it's almost always correct. Another mistake I made was I gave her my phone number instead of asking for hers, but I didnt give it to her just because I wanted to but because we agreed to do something for a group work. She told me she'll call this week but didn't. I will meet her again in two weeks. Now my question is, when I first meet her I should: a) Initiate a convo with her and maybe a flirt a little and guage her reaction. b) Not say a word and wait until she talks to me (see if she still chases). c) Play it cool and pretend it doesnt bother me even though it does and ignore her. d) Just move on. She has a BF in the first place (even if she said she's not happy, she still has baggage). e) Flirt with another girl and see her reaction (for some reason she's jealous of this one girl who she thinks is more attractive than her). f) You are over analyzing things. Everything should be fine. People make mistakes sometimes and others are usually sympathetic. Please explain why you picked one over the other. Thank you in advance.