I sent a letter to a girlfriend I hadn't seen in 30 years or have spoken to in 10 years.The relationship we had was the first serious love involvement for both of us and lasted a few years.
I am a married man with a family and she is on her 2nd marriage and also has a family.The letter described how I still think of her often and feel strongly about her.
Now before you start thinking "What a loser"or "Get your own life" please understand that there are alot of people who look up past loves and are very happy they did.Many reunite after decades and pick up their relationships where they left off.
Now I do know that both of us being married (happily or not) puts up huge roadblocks for any thing developing at this point, I also know she is on her 2nd marriage and I'm my wifes 2nd so the sanctity of marriage is not what it used to be.My intention was to test the waters and who knows maybe start a conversation and years from now the ember that still smolders could start a fire.
My question or more of a poll is this? How would you feel getting a letter from your first BF/lover after all this time? Indicate whether your current martial status influences your feelings ?Also, I think there are to be gender related differences.I think men who receive letters are probably very curious and will follow up regardless of current factors.Woman on the other hand my be scared or happy I don't know. So please give me some input positive or negative and also add if you would reply or ignore it.
Thanks
