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I feel your pain, today my Uncle and his Girlfriend lost there child to miscarrage, she was only 9 weeks in but, its hard, I believe that you and your ex need to talk, share your thoughts and feelings, it was something that would have changed your lives forever. I don't think that this new girlfriend has the right to say that you two can't talk alone, and if he's willing to then I think its time!

Thats my thoughts, hope it works out for you!

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i prefer american accent. it's simple and clear.

 

british and kiwi are cool too but i can't understand sometimes. i have to ask them to repeat it ( which makes them think i'm not paying attention to the words they say)....LOL

I don't think the problem is that its not clear its more, the way they use words that have a different meaning to them then something to us would and then it confuses us.........thats just what I think, others may or may not agree with me.....everyone is entitled to there own opinion!

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Well I being one of them Maritimers, I do think that you may need a translator, esp. the Newfoundlanders lived there for years so I have alittle of both and it can be confusing to some.....

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Just want to know what you all think is the most romantic accent...........

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As long as I don't have any regrets cause i'm chasing my heart

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This is stressful

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You make a really good point there!

Imagine yourself 5 years from now looking back...do you imagine yourself having gone to your old high school's senior prom with people you've known almost your whole life? Or sharing that experience with the new friends you've made in your new location?

We have always talked about the future and wanting each other to be in it, I'd rather have my memories were they mean the most to me at my old school, with people i've grown up with all of my life!

Then Graduation is another thing, either go back or graduate here!

Its all about what means more.....the thing that gets me the most is the school I attend now is where my grandma and mother started and graduated from, and i'm the 50th class too, i'm in the middle of it, wanting to go back there too or be part of the 3rd generation thing!

I don't like having to choose!

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Its alittle of both, I want to attend my prom with my new friends, But I also want to attend his prom since I grow up with everyone there, just not sure what to do...........I know I can't have it all, its one thing i don't want to miss in those extraordinary moments, we've been together for everything, and this one is really important!

We've talked about it alot, but I get alittle upset to what I want, but I also want to make him happy too

Its all confusing

Help me!

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As I read all the other posts, I see that most of the relationships are 1-1.5 hour drives away, but mine is a 4 hour drive, a 8 hour boat ride, then another hour drive, so all together its 13 hours apart, its extreme I know but I love him.

We've known each other from the beginning, that first day of kindergarden, grow up together since that day, faced our fears together, shared all of lifes extraordinary moments and lifes crucial moments together, we were inseparable, that bond between each other is special

Then the problem happened about a year ago, once I finished my grade 11 year at school, my dad was relocated to another place. (where i'm living now)

ripped my heart out, going from inseparable to maybe a week or so every 2 months, the high phone bills every month, him and I both finding someone new but it never lasting became hard but are now trying to make "us together " work again, Now being in grade 12, last year of school, wanting him to be my prom date, but being in differnet schools the dates are so close together or on the same day, the distance he would have to travel to get here, its something I want to share with someone special cause its something I will remember for the rest of my life, he has been there for everything else, why not this, its a new page to the extraordinary moments we've share together!

Just don't know what to do thats all???

Should I graduate with him, with everyone that I grow up with or stay here and find someone else to go with?

If you have any options love to hear them!

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We are all different people, we are all like fingerprints not one is alike

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Sure do, i've heard it many times

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Yep by one year he is, but i've talked to his mom and brother a few times, there just as nice and either there lieing too then

what you think?

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NO........I met him on the net that would be the point of the post here on "Cyber Relationships"

But if you mean do I know what he looks like, yes I have see him in that aspect on cam

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love is an emotion, a feeling you have towards someone, and sex is an act of pleasure... you dont need to love someone to have sex with them, you can go screw any person, but you cant just love anyone, so they are nowhere near the same thing

thats why communication is the backbone of a relationship

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Ya now thats what i'm talking about right there, well put

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Yeah about a year, none of the teachers know, but they soon caught on to who I was because there was only two of us in the school out of 900 kids that shared the same surname....but it became a problem having the label after that

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Yeah I hear you there, I wansn't a kid that was gifted with brains, I'm more of a person that excels in stuff that are hands on at school and I do everything to avoid the book work all together, I take what is required like english, math, history, then its all like tec. courses stuff I enjoy like woodworking, welding, etc...

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Why is it when the whole time when growing up ( mostly applys to people with sisters/brothers) that when for example in school that your teachers expect or I guess its more a label on you to be as smart or trouble maker just as your older sibling/s were, i hate it because im my own person, I have totally different interest, abilities, ways of learning......and in my case I think I should be treated like a differnt person all together, not like my sister, its not like i'm attached to her hip

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But why are they with that person if they aren't getting there fulifullment of there partner and have to go out and cheat???

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Thanks to all you ........your a really great support team

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Looks were never something that set me back, beauty isn't always on the outside, its inside aswell, and I don't ever want to be a high maintnance girl, I'd rather be myself then someone i'm not and never will be so yeah........thanks hope to hear more on this

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That is amazing poem....love it

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I'm a normal fun, outgoing, loving gal

Not the type that care what I look like, or if my make-up is in order ( really don't wear it) Don't need to be covered up by it, its just hiding the real me and I don't believe in it fully.

Not really the one to be shopping crazy either i'd rather be in jeans with a

t-shirt, not a money spender, I like hanging out, 4-wheeling, building stuff ( getting my hands dirty ) I'm an action, horror etc. movie person, Playing Rugby is my favorite sport ( its a dirty game, rough and ya gotta be tough),i'm just not a high maintenance kinda girl I guess

So anywho my point being I want to start dating but i'm shy to make the first move on anyone that I kinda have a crush on, or just anyone, I guess part of me is hiding waiting for them, I scared to get hurt if it started out well then crashed and burn

Just wondering what you guys all reckon I should do, how do I go abouts this......etc.

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Ok, I want hear your complete opinion on this!

Give me, in 10 good lines why you disagree about this completely??

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Jonquil: why do you think he's deceiving me???

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