Alright, so this is my Dilemma.
About four months ago i noticed that i was really starting to like this girl. So, as most guys would, i started to get to know her, talked with her on aim, found out what she liked, you know, the routine. I talked to her friends, and my friends and they all confirmed what i knew to be the truth, she was shy. But i thought since i was shy around people i didn't know, maybe we would have a lot in common (which we do), and as i grew accustomed to her, and less shy, i was able to talk to her more and more, but she is still stuck at what i call phase one. And she does the most peculiar things, and i have no idea what to make of them. For instance, when we talk on the internet, there comes a point where she says something, and even when i understand it, she says i don't and then says, i don't think i can even talk to you right now. This has happened three or four times, and i can't tell if she is kidding or not because the next day we talk just like every other day. Another odd thing has to do with notes. I haven't had much experience with girls, but the experience i have had has shown me that girls love getting notes and reading them and what not. However, the first note i wrote her, i hid in her hood on her sweatshirt and she found it later(in the note i said that i hoped it made her smile), and so later i asked her if the note did make her smile and she said that it made her angry... once again, no idea if she was just joking, and the next day she was fine. So i decided that maybe she just liked the note and didn't know how to express it? I don't know. I wrote up another one and this time she caught me when i put it in her hood, but instead of taking it like everyone else does, she threw it back at me, she laughed when she did though and then told me we were on non speaking terms. Later that day i slipped it in her locker, and that night i asked her if she got it, and she said yes but now we were on double non speaking terms... i don't know why i didn't stop with the notes, but i didn't. The day after that she had locked up her locker so i couldn't put the note in, i folded it really small though and slipped it in anyway.... I talked to my friends about it and they said i should just let her talk to me first now. It is so confusing because if she was doing all of this with an annoyed and angry look on her face i'd get the idea, but whenever she is not doing these odd things, she talks to me and laughs and jokes around. I'm wondering if i should just give up.
Sorry this is so long, i just had to make sure i got most of it out there so i can get some help, any would be appreciated.
Thanks, Dennis
