mr weir

I don't doubt that she would come back. but only till her wounds healed then she'd take off again. i don't deserve that. thanks for all replies

Thanks for all your replies. I've no intention of getting back with her. She's too unstable. Her current relationship has been on-off 2-3 times ( plus she allegedly fell pregnant then "lost" the baby ) It's just that never has anyone returned anything after we've split. But to move house then pass her number to me ( of all people ) spoke volumes. I'm sure she realises I was a stable future. Never mind !

I split from her because she was vain, a drama queen and possibly "psycho" However, she was lively, reasonable company and a wonderful lover!! But I got out early as I saw too many "red flags". Just curious why she chose to return worthless items 4 months after we split. My male friends said closure, female friends said that she was trying to see if I'd contact her. Thanks for the replies

My first posting! OK I would like a female viewpoint please. I split with my ex g/f 16 months ago and it ended in an unpleasant fashion. But I moved on by brushing the whole thing under the carpet. But in May she turned up and returned two books and some wine glasses. I'd forgotten she even had them! They were of no value or significance. Barely a word was spoken and she took off. Then for 6 months....nothing. But then she texted me out of the blue. Initially wanting answers to "what when wrong" and that she was angry. She included her new house phone number as she'd moved ( I didn't phone her ) But she phoned for a brief chat. Anyway we fell out and the texts stopped. She actually has a b/f but apparently is an on-off saga. Curious she never mentioned him once in her texts. They bought a flat together but he didn't move in. Instead he lives 20 miles away! Now, my ex has a 4 year old son and the curious thing is that this house is 5 metres from a v busy road. Not the actions of a man who wants children in his life! ( but not my business I suppose ) We bump in to each other now and again and the atmosphere is v awkward ie love/ hate/passion and butterflies etc However we never speak The big question is; was she after closure ( by handing back the books ) or has she failed to let go bearing in mind her current relationship is obviously is bad nick. Help! Mr Weir