savyjo

When the moment is right, you will know. My first "real" kiss happened when I was 12 at a school dance and it actually happened when someone dared my boyfriend to kiss me. That sort of got the jitters out of me because I wanted to look good for my friends. Little things that have always gotten me to give a guy the first kiss are always the same. One of the easiest ways is just to cuddle with her, it sets the mood and makes you more relaxed. Simple, not sleezy touches like putting your arm around her. While watching a movie or something like that reach over and grab her hand. One that always gets me because I'm a fun loving person is just wrestling. I love joking around and have had a few first kisses happen by just joking around and wrestling. Fact is though when you are ready for it you will be somewhat nervous but will know what to do. Good luck!

Alright, this is my first time posting on here. I have a little guy problem that I need advice on from someone not close to me who will tell me the truth. I'll try to make this as short as possible. Way back in May I went out with some friends and ended up hooking up with one of them that night. Nothing happened between us for quite some time until November when we stayed up one night talking and ended up just kissing. Since then it has become a regular thing. One night I told him how I felt, that I liked him and he told me that he liked me as well. Right after new years I finally got sick of not really knowing what was going on so I asked him about it. He said that he didn't want a relationship and didn't have time for one. Normally I would take that as I know most guys mean it, I don't want a relationship with you I just want sex, but I've known him for 2 years and I just have a hard time believing that. Everybody who knows him well says that too. What really confuses me though is right after Christmas he wouldn't even let me touch him one night. He literally rolled over on his stomach and told me that tonight it was going to be all about me. Call me crazy but I find it hard to believe that a man who just wants sex would do that. Someone please help, this is starting to drive me absolutely crazy.