Damon T

thanks so much peeps for all your kind advice!!!! unfortunaltely we split up! he said he didn't really want to do valentines day as he was having doubts about the relationship.he feels he isn't ready and is scared of getting into something which is a big big shame as he didn't have anything negative to say about our relationship! gonna see him in two weeks and hope we can be good as friends! thanks again everyone d x

Hey everyone just wanted a bit of advice really I've been seeing a guy since before Christmas now and we've been getting on great, everything is going well. I mentioned Valentine's Day and he's not really bothered about it! He says he doesn't like it as he's always been single when Valentine's Day comes around and he thinks it's not fair on single people, he also thinks it's really commercial and why should you need a special day to do nice things! I know where he's coming from as I kind of agree with what he's saying but I really want to see him AND get a card! Am I being soppy? How can we compromise? When he said he wasn't really interested I was all blase about it and pretented I wasn't bothered!! I would appreciate your feedback! Thanks D x

had a lovely weekend with him,you all reasured me!! why is it you go all insecure when you start dating???? i'm not normally! fingers crossed anyway thanks again peeps,you're all stars!!!! d x

thanks guys. i don't want you both to think i'm only after one thing! i like taking it slow it's just my last boyfriend said he never really fancied me and he thought he would grow to,he never wanted to kiss even after months as he said it was 'unclean'! i suppose i'm just a bit paronoid since then and just want reasurance!! i'm seeing hijm tonight anyway! thanks for the advice !!! damon x

I've had 6 dates up to now and we've been getting on great.we talked on the phone for 3 hours last week and he pays me loads of compliments as i do to him and we just seem to click.the time before last i saw him we cuddled on the coach for ages and it felt right and we kissed but i sensed he didn't want to and he said the next day we shouldn't have done as it was too soon and he wanted to get to know me more mentally. when i last saw him i said i couldn't stop thinking about him and that i wanted him. i asked him if he fancied me and he couldn't say yes.he said he really liked being with me and stuff. i know i've probably made it worse and might have scared him off. i'm just confused as he's said i'm hot in texts and said he can't sleep thinking about me and was talking about me to his friends at work but he didn't say he fancied me!!! does he just see me as a nice guy who's fun to be with or does he find me sexually attractive?? i ended up saying we'll just say we're friends then last time i saw him he came back to mine and we went to bed! he said he enjoyed it a lot and now we've ended up saying we'll go back to how we were dating and see what happens, he said he doesn't wanna rush into the physical part. am i heading for a fall fooling myself or should i go with the flow? sorry about all the questions and shoddy grammar!! anyone any opinions? thanks in advance damon