I know i just wrote a letter in another part but i really need to understand all of this, my partner left me after 17 years with our two children for another woman bang out of the blue, we had been going out together and spending time as a family in the last year which had been the best year of our life since having the kids. This other woman that he left me for has nothing on me and that is not me just saying that it is alot of friends as well, for since this has all happened i have lost weight not that i was big to begin with but some say i look like my teenager days. And i cannot work out to why he would stay with someone that he is not getting along with and is spending all the money on herself for that is what type of woman she is i love this guy very much and would take him back in a heart beat, and he knows this some people have said to me that i should say something to him but i feel if i do it may just push him away and i don't want that. He rings me all the time not just to speak to the kids but to speak to me he also comes as much as he can to see me which tends to make me think he wants to come back but doesn't know how to get out of this relationship with this other woman, does any one have any suggestion to how to deal with this to get him back with out asking but by showing him for i have become a stronger person because of this and can do anything
