hellogoodbye

I dont think thats a rebound relationship. He doesnt exactly sound like a winner but his relationship may work who knows? If he were the poster and not her I doubt everyone would be so quick to say that it wont. Just have faith that your true love is out there, worry less about his realtionship and more about creating new ones.

If the guy dumped you how is that a rebound marriage? would it only be a rebound if the dumpee were to get married? Not trying to be rude just want to understand.

I dont really know what to think. Can you really consider an online friend a "friend." I really dont get where the line is drawn. If you talk to someone for years wether you've met them or not arent you bound to get attached? And if not then what If you are? Does that make you crazy? I dont have many firends but I also dont consider myself some loser that can only make friends online. But then maybe I am one of those ppl. I dont know.

Or she could have some type of ED. I hate to bring that up but its a possiblity. I know a few athletes that are dealing with ED's. Its a possiblity or she just has a great metabolism.

You really should talk her about sex, maybe if you talk about it more she will become less shy about it. The thing thats starnge about her is that shes been with you for years and she trusts you enough to have oral sex but not regular sex. She has odd boundaries.

Well thanks for all the comments. We have decided to just meet u and see where it goes thats all we can do really. Thanks.

Is that even possible? Say you meet ppl and hit it off but it never turns into a relationship or you move away or lose contact? Or maybe you wanted to ask someone out and never did, now you could kick yourself? Maybe that could've been your soulmate and you just missed out...Is that at all possible? If someone is ur soulmate arent you just meant to be? And no matter what you will find them? I just dont understand this whole soulmate mess.

Ok, Ive been chatting with a guy for about 3 1/2 years maybe a little longer, maybe 4 years. We met through designing websites. He lives in another country. I live in the US. Weve been good friends and recently its become more. We have both sent eachother pix. We both really want to meet eachother face to face and hopefully have a realtionship. My question is am I being unrealistic? Am I being too much of an idealist to think that an online relationship could work? I really think it could we have so much in common. He wants to move to the US. And maybe be my room mate. But I cant do that b/c i will be living in the dorms @ college. But We are trying to find a way to meet up. I havent told my parents or any of my friends they will think Im stupid or something. I'd just like an opinion about this.