my boyfriend and i go to different schools and this weekend i am flying up to stay the weekend with him. anyway we have decided to have sex for the first time and i am wondering about a particular issue. normally, i shave.. down there.. but that obviously doesn't last too long - usually a day or so before the smoothness is gone. since i am going to be there for a whole weekend, i want to be nice and smooth and hairless the whole time. is this something that i should want? is he going to expect that? should i wax? i never have before. does it hurt? does it last? any help in this area would be great! thanx!