Okay, I'll try to make a long story short...my girlfriend of 4+ years broke up with me about 8 months ago. I said I didn't want to speak with her and it was going fine until I ran into her this summer. We ended up getting a few drinks and then went our separate ways.
Anyways, the past few weeks she has called me numerous times and has written me a few emails. We've hung out together 3 or 4 times in the last 2 weeks and have been getting along great. Normally I would just man-up and tell her that I still have feelings for her but this is far from a normal situation.
Here's the catch...she started seeing somebody and he's been sent overseas. They only went out a couple times before he left, and it is far from anything serious. She has admitted herself that she doesn't even know if she really likes him.
So what am I to do? Do I tell her how I feel or do I wait to see what happens with her other relationship? I do want to get back together with her but would I be a douchebag for breaking up a soldier in iraq with his 'girlfriend' back home? Any advice would be appreciated.