Hi there!
I met this guy from my past a couple of months ago. He was all over me, asked me to come join him for a weekend out of town, insisted he'd have my number etc. We kissed and I felt this strong strong attraction, but I was in a relationship at that time, so we didn't go any further.
I then broke it off with my boyfriend and made a booty call on him. We ended up at my places, talked (also very private stuff), laughed, made love several times and cuddled up in bed all day. I believe some connection were made here, but I am not sure since he's not the type to commit – unlike me.
I cannot stop thinking about him. I am so infatuated with him, like I was way back then.
It's been almost 1 month since we hooked up and I haven't heard from him. I then chose to text him to sort of test the waters. I asked if he wanted to get together the day after the message was sent, and he replied shortly hereafter saying yes to my proposal and suggested we'd text each other about getting together the next day. I wanted him to make the first contact the next day, since I had broken the silence and taken an initiative, but he did not contact me. And I refused to be the first to text since this was also a test on my behalf.
Hmm…writing this down it occurs to me that I'm a bit naive. He's just in it for the sex, isn't he? He would have made more of an effort to contact me in the first place if he was in any way interested, wouldn't he?
What do you guys think – should I give it a try, or should I leave it at that and move on?
