Hi,
I decided to seek some on-line help dealing with the break-up of my relationship of 3 years (plus about a year as friends before that).
This relationship isn`t like many others that exist nor did it end because of the usual reasons.
My ex has a 5 year old son from a previous relationship, who I was (and still am) emotionally attached to. We had recently bought a house and I was working to get it into shape for moving into.
I`m not young (26) and have plenty of serious relationships and other girlfriends to know what is 'near perfect' in a women (for me). Unfortunately my ex fitted almost everything I could have asked for in a girlfriend - looks, communication, love, friendship, etc.
But over the last few months she has seemed more distant, wanting to spend more time with her son (she still lives with her parents) whilst I worked on the house.
Then last Friday I decided to talk to her and say how I felt that I was getting a little bit deglected, and though it would be nice for me to be more involved again. To this she basically told me (over the fone) that she didn`t feel the same way about me anymore, and couldn`t go through with anything. Soo completely out of the blue.
I think the real pain is that I had issues with her past (she still see's her sons father), her son and me and her family's acceptance of me BUT over the last year those have gone and I had planned >literally
I`m a strong person, I`ll know that I`ll get over it and move on - she wants to be friends but all your advice says that simply never works.
Even if I share this with one person it will make it easier...
